Forks can be friendly too.

I wish moms and dads would be consistent in encouraging children to use their utensils the proper way.

If children can feed themselves then they can hold their fork or spoon the traditional way.

The shovel method is awkward and only lets children eat too fast and with too much food on the fork/spoon.

Children learn to hold crayons the right way early in life so you know they can learn to properly hold their dining utensil. Mom and dad need to make sure they set a good example at the table and don't get lazy with their habits.

Children learn by example and parents can really help in teaching good table manners.