In our home, the elders or grandparents are the honored guests to go first in a buffet line. Why do some families allow children to dig in and mess up a beautifully prepared buffet? Grandmas and Grandpas go first, followed by moms and children that need help, followed by the hungry men of the family.
Children need to learn restraint and respect for the older family members. It's the right thing to do.
If a grace or blessing is said before the meal is eaten then it is a good idea to stand by your chair and say the blessing and then start the buffet. That way everyone is together for the blessing of the food.
The etiquette for when to begin eating at a buffet is that when three people are at the table everyone can begin to enjoy their meal.
Again, it is so helpful for children to know what is expected of them before a family holiday meal. They are more comfortable in the situation and the parents can enjoy a relaxing time knowing the children are doing the right thing.
Family meals are a very important time and should be a special, stress-free event.
Happy Holidays and remember, It's Always Time for Manners.
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