Table Settings are a Gift to your Guests

Everyone likes to receive a present with colorful wrappings and a fancy bow.  There is always excitement and anticipation when you see the gift and then you have the fun of opening the gift.

A dinner table, especially for the holidays, should be like a gift to your guests.  Here are five simple things you can do to make a table special.

1.   The table should have a nicely ironed table cloth and napkins.
2.   Candles make a very special effect.
3.   A clever centerpiece, whether it is flowers or a collection of family treasures,  a turkey, Santa or even a bowl of fruit make a pleasant visual.
4.   Each place setting of silverware should be straight and set properly at everyone's place.
5.   Dishes and glassware should be always polished and shined.

Now you have a gift to your guests of a beautiful table setting.  Look at magazines for ideas, go to the library to research table settings or look on the internet.  Your guests will appreciate the work that goes into a festive table,  it's a gift to your guests.

Remember, It's Always Time for Manners

Let's Talk Turkey

Thanksgiving is coming and now is the time to work on table manners with the family.  Although every meal should be consider a special occasion, Thanksgiving is the holiday that friends and family come together and sit at the table for the traditional meal.

Review the basic table manners such as coming to the table when called, hands washed, hair combed and everyone dressed neatly and with respect.  Mealtime helps the family reconnect with news or events of the day.  Everyone should listen with interest and pay attention to feelings of any member of the family as they speak.    Young children, teens or guests want to feel welcome and part of a mealtime celebration.

One of the most important times at dinner is when everyone comes to the table and sits down.  The napkin goes on the lap and the family waits for a blessing to be said.  In some homes maybe this doesn't happen but always wait and take the signal from the head of the family when to eat.  It is always polite to wait until the mother or grandmother lifts her fork to start eating.   That is the time for everyone else to begin enjoying their meal.

Remember, It's Always Time for Manners!