3 Secrets for Happy Family Dinners

1. Make sure to always set a table so children know that special family time is important.

It's easy to eat in front of the TV or "grab" some food whenever kids are hungry but the only way to encourage family unity is to sit down together and share a meal.

2. Have each family member tell the family the best thing that happened to them that day.

Keeping the conversation positive will make for a pleasant evening meal and allow the children to learn to be grateful for their day.

3. Parents should use their best dining manners everyday.

Children learn by example and learning from their parents will be the most beneficial way to teach family members good manners.

Remember: It's Always Time for Manners

Let the Flag Fly Free

4th of July is almost here and have you checked your flag to see if it is in good condition? Here are 5 things to remember when flying the American Flag.

1. Display the flag from sunrise to sunset. At night, it should be illuminated.

2. Don't let the flag touch the ground.

3. Never tie it down or hold it in place, the flag should be free.

4. Never fly the flag in inclement weather.

5. Make sure the flag is not tattered or torn.

If your flag must be replaced then dispose of it in a respectful way. A flag should be folded properly and buried or taken to a American Legion Post so they can dispose of it in a dignified ceremony.

Children enjoy learning about the history and proper etiquette of the American Flag. Discussions with the family about respecting the flag is all part of good manners.

A Gentle Hand Tells the Story

My daughter-in-law uses this unique technique with our granddaughter. When the mom is talking to other people and my granddaughter wants to say something or needs her mom's attention she gently places her hand on her mother's hand as a signal that she would like to ask a question or needs some attention. The gesture does not interrupt a conversation but only lets the mom know that she needs to say, "please excuse me" while she attends to her daughter.

So many times children can be rude by breaking into conversations and causing a scene. Isn't this a nice way to teach children to consider others? Good manners are always appreciated and needed in our society. Children feel good when they know the right thing to do.